A Friend’s Death and Career Negotiation

A Friend’s Death and Career Negotiation

My very first friend passed away this week. Her parents and my parents lived in the same apartment complex since when we were both born until we were 4 when we moved to Michigan and they moved to Central Illinois. Our connection did not end there. Our parents kept in...
Career Change Can Suck!

Career Change Can Suck!

I have gained some weight and I am not happy about it. I could blame 2020 and no one would fault me. Yet, even if the isolation and low-level anxiety of the pandemic contributed to my overeating, the fact is something’s got to change. Except, I am not fully ready to...
Make My Paycheck a Venti!

Make My Paycheck a Venti!

I’m on the phone with a friend as she was driving away from Starbucks. She was trying to convince me to order her new favorite latte. (Chai tea latte with oat milk and 3 pumps brown sugar syrup in case you’re wondering). Then she says, “But today they were out of oat...
What Gear Is Your Career In?

What Gear Is Your Career In?

I’m reading a great book called Niksen: Embracing the Dutch Art of Doing Nothing by Olga Mecking. Niks, in Dutch, means nothing. And the verb, niksen, means doing nothing, specifically without a goal or purpose in mind. To do nothing in America, is...
How Will You Approach Your Job Search?

How Will You Approach Your Job Search?

I was talking with a young woman who had recently been laid off. She was unhappy. I listened to her talk and could feel both her fear and her blame: It will take me so long to find a new job I love Filing for Unemployment- ugh! Darn Covid If only management had done...